If you feel you are not well accepted by someone you wish would accept and admire you, you have to conquer this person.

This person could be the one you love, or your boss, your teacher, your friend, whoever. The lessons I’m going to give you here are general and can be applied in all cases.

First of all you have to try to understand the other person’s psychology.

Analyze their personality, try to understand their reactions: why they act the way they do? Who are they really?

Try to find out everything you can about this important person and pay attention to their behavior. Pay attention to what they like and to what they dislike.

Do that without being noticed, of course! Your research is secret.

After observing and examining everything you can about the other person, try to do things that they like, in the way they like them. You have to please them, having the behavior they admire. This is why you have to learn first of all what their preferences are, analyzing their personality and everything else.

You have to study the other person’s behavior if you want to be successful in your relationship.

Now, if you want to be admired, you must do more than simply “please” the other person doing something they like.

Who do we admire?

We admire people that do something heroic, people that are successful, people that have a good character, people that help others, people that know many things, people that have a great sense of humor, people that always have the courage to say the truth, people that have an ideal in life, people that are not empty but have many qualities and do many things, people that work, people that are original… just to give you an idea.

So, if you want to be admired, you have to be somehow like the examples I mentioned: you have to be very good in certain point.

Which point? The one that the special person admires.

Depending on what they like, you have to adjust the ideal attitude for your case. Be a hero, according to their idea of a hero.

If for them a hero would be someone that works a lot, be an excellent worker. If for them a hero would be a person that makes a lot of money, try to make money somehow, in order to impress them; if they like generosity, be the hero that saves the poor, and so on.

There are many other things you can do!

Try to discover them by yourself, now that you understood how to begin.

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She goes to the party, even though it’s late.

Remembering all the moments they spent together, when someone finally opens the door, she enters the house still involved in the romantic mood that her memories brought.

She had to wait a long time until someone finally heard the bell because the music was too loud.

There are so many people inside there that she cannot find her friend or recognize anyone. So many faces!

No place to sit down. She stays near the door because it’s impossible to walk. There are even people in the most hidden corners and who knows where else…

She is thirsty but nobody offers her a drink.

She sees a disk with a few full glasses on the table. What is inside them?

She tries to walk and reach them, but she cannot move. She then has the idea to ask for a glass to someone near her. She does that and the guy she asks to bring her a glass asks it to another guy and so on, until someone finally gets the glass and sends it to her, through many hands.

It’s whisky with water, because the ice has melted. She smells it and feels like throwing up.

Where could she leave the glass?

The nearest table is a few feet further and she cannot move.

She feels like a sardine in a can.

After waiting and listening to the loud music and to the noise of many conversations at the same time, she gives the glass to someone that finally gets it from her hand.

She opens the door and leaves.

Too much traffic in the streets…

She returns home dead tired and sleeps.

The next day three alarm clocks repeat many times that it’s time to wake up, but her ears have immunization against alarm clocks. This is a self-defense: her tired body automatically becomes one with the bed as soon as the alarm clocks begin.

Well, she delays too much to arrive to the office again…

Meanwhile, her boss forgot the keys inside his car and closed the door, which automatically locks.

He tries to call his wife; however his cellular battery is dead because he forgot to recharge it. He asks her to give him her cellular.

However, she forgot to bring it with her, because she left in a hurry, forgetting also to bring with her many other items, left in another purse.

A colleague has the office keys and saves them, opening the door triumphantly.

They enter and she answers the phone. Someone complains about what is happening next week. She sends the line to her boss.

A couple enters talking. She looks at them and asks them what they want. However, they are too busy talking between themselves without paying any attention to her.

A man asks her about his case. She opens the drawer, but she cannot find a very important paper that should be there.

She goes to the next room, looking for the missing document.

However, it cannot be found.

The couple asks her a hundred questions at the same time, when they finally finish talking by themselves.

She is taller than him and he is bald. If she was brunette, they would be like Olive and Popeye, but she is too blonde. Her hair color is obviously the result of many types of dyes.

Popeye is a little stutterer and manages somehow to finish his questions, while Olive talks too fast, without ever shouting her mouth.

The phone rings again.

The mail man brings her many envelopes that she has to organize.

The man who was waiting for the missing document finishes talking with his partner on his cellular phone and asks her what will happen with his case.

Olive becomes irritated because time is running out and she has an appointment.

Someone else comes in and starts asking questions too.

Her boss is fighting with his wife on the second telephone, while her colleague is flirting with a secretary on the first one. She cannot make any phone calls, because there is no third line …

A woman enters and sits down near her desk, as if nobody else was there and it was her turn to be attended. The entire office smells strongly of her fragrance.

Popeye becomes irritated with the delay too.

She feels that the “sympathetic couple” is going to hit her, besides the man who is waiting for the missing document.

Too many “very pleasant” complaints at the same time complete the already “very nice” scenario. They come from the over-perfumed woman, who speaks at a speed of approximately sixty words per second.

Both telephones ring at the same time.

She tells everyone that her boss is going to solve all their problems, one by one.

However, her boss suddenly leaves the office without saying a word, because he urgently needs a lawyer to prepare his divorce. 

Her colleague has no idea about anything. He’s only a tourist in the office, because he is the boss’s nephew.

However, she tells the complainers that he is their savior and that he will solve all the existing problems in her boss’s place, since they ignore the bitter truth and she doesn’t know what to do.

The man who is waiting for the missing document is ready to hit her colleague.

However, another problem suddenly occupies all of them: someone is shouting inside the lift. It is stuck in the middle of the floor and nobody can get out of there.

Three very fat men are responsible for this abnormality: the three together must weigh more than a ton.

She calls the building’s janitor, asking for help. However, he is busy with another problem, somewhere else.

She gets out of the office abandoning the complainers to comfort the imprisoned in the lift.

Her complainers follow her.

She finds a chance to go back to the office without being noticed and tells the boss’s nephew to get out.

They lock the door, so that the complainers won’t get back in.

The firemen arrive and everyone wants to watch the miraculous salvation of the three fat prisoners in the lift, forgetting their rush.

However, the heroic firemen disappoint everyone: many other problems arise as they try to solve the first ones.

Where is the building’s janitor?

They look for him everywhere.

However, he cannot be found.

Someone looks for her.

However, the office is locked and nobody is there.

Finally, someone finds the building’s janitor, after many failed attempts.

However, the janitor forgot where they keep the lift’s maintenance equipment and he cannot save the fat prisoners.

Her boss arrives.

However, he doesn’t have the office keys, because they are still in the locked car.

Someone calls the police, but they tell them to call the firemen instead.

Finally, an intelligent observer smiles, enlightened by a very brilliant idea that will save the lift’s prisoners without delay.

However, it doesn’t work…  

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When someone asks you if you are happy, your response could either be ironic or philosophical, but deep inside your heart you know that you are not as happy as you wish you were…

You may think that you are very happy on weekends and holidays and never again think about this matter. You may say that you are very happy, and thank everyone a lot for their concern when they ask you so, but are you really satisfied with your life? Your personality? The world where you live?

Perhaps your answer to this question may be straightforward and you may say that you are not happy at all. You are depressed and you don’t believe in happiness.

The answers to the same question vary a lot according to everyone’s experiences and character.

Is there a map that anyone could follow to ensure the achievement of happiness? Is happiness a treasure that anyone can find? Will it last forever? Will it be real and wonderful?

I have been a philosopher and writer since I was 7. I have tried to find the answer to these questions since the time I started to think and write. I would write my thoughts and compare them as time passed.

My poetry was special; I won many prizes. Everyone who knew me was aware that I was an excellent writer. When my works were part of any competition, they always received the first prize. Once, I even won a car, when I wrote a small story for a magazine, only because a friend had asked me to. I wrote it on the last day (even though the competition had permitted 2 months to write it) because I didn’t like the subject and I was studying for exams at the University during that time. However, my friend called me up asking if I had written it on the last day of submission, and I could not refuse. So, I wrote it in half an hour and it was the best one, a real work of art! 

My teachers and the rest of my college admired my writing, and I was sure that I would someday be a great writer, and perhaps win the Nobel Prize in literature. This was my dream, and it did not appear impossible. I wanted to see my books translated in all existent languages…

However, my destiny was completely different from what I had imagined it to be. Instead of being a writer, I became a psychologist because I pursued the hidden meaning of my own literature. I received magical inspiration from the unconscious that produces our dreams and regulates the functioning of our body. The unconscious is wise and saintly and it tries to save the conscience from the attacks of the wild side of the conscience (anti-conscience), which is very violent and evil and tries to destroy our conscience through craziness.

I interpreted the mysterious meaning of my own literature just as we interpret dreams. I discovered the big illusion of human existence, our anti-conscience, which is demoniac and too powerful. This is our primitive, animal conscience, which can think but is totally insensitive. It is a wild beast that belongs to us, and is part of our personality.

This discovery made me abandon my ideals of fame and glory and strive for humility instead, because I clearly saw the signs of schizophrenia reflected in my own literature. I had the characteristics of a dictator who wanted to impose her selfish desires on everyone.

The unconscious revealed several things, including the fact that we can find true happiness after completely developing our conscience and eliminating all mental illnesses.

If you completely develop your human conscience, you can eliminate your anti-conscience and become a genius because you are not using the biggest fraction of your conscience, since it belongs to your primitive conscience. This is the anti-conscience that has to be transformed into the conscience: you cannot kill it, because it is a part of you.

There is really a map by which you can find real happiness, and this is the scientific method of dream interpretation. By following this method of dream interpretation, you can transform the monster into a conscious part of yourself and you’ll then be able to use this part of your conscience, which will make you far more intelligent than what you are now that you are using only a tiny part of your conscience.

In order to be happy, you need mental health and wisdom.

If you are wise, your happiness doesn’t depend on your external reality, because you have inner peace. Further, if you are wise, you do everything perfectly and you always have the best results in your daily reality as well. You don’t make any mistakes or waste your time with what is not good for you. 

Therefore, when someone asks you if you are happy, you will say that you are always happy with yourself because you recognize all the good things that you have, but that you are always sad because not everybody in this world can be happy like you.

You must have a burning desire to help everyone find happiness, since everyone requires it very much. Only then will you be able to say that you are completely happy. Your happiness should not be the selfish and absurd kind: it will be a healthy happiness that will not be threatened by any danger.

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If you start making fun of the sad situations in your life, you will start laughing about what is wrong, instead of feeling sad and annoyed.

Of course, you must feel sad with what is bad and you must accept suffering when necessary, however, since sadness and depression are unbearable, you have to fight against these feelings. They have a negative impact and they ruin your life.

What can you do to feel better?

How can you acquire the indispensable mood in order to start making fun of everything around you?

Use irony!

For example, you see an old friend on the other side of the street. You feel happy and you even cross the street smiling because you are going to meet old Joe, with whom you went to many parties in the past, but when you get near him, he simple says: “Hi”, and waves his hand saying: “See you!” walking quickly to his destination, without caring about your existence.

You feel stupid. You almost lost your appointment because you crossed the street to meet the “old fellow”, while he despised you completely, without showing you any sympathy.

Now, what are you going to do? Feel sad and disappointed, believing that your warm reaction was ridiculous?

No! You are going to make a joke out of it!

Fiascos are the best material for natural jokes!

You are going to tell your friends that you had “a very important meeting” the other day, and you are going to exaggerate while describing your feelings and your actions.

You are going to say that you were too far, but yes, you could recognize him. Yes, it was Joe! What an emotion! Joe, the old Joe! You couldn’t believe in your eyes…

The place was crowded, but with tremendous difficulty, you managed to pass through the crowd like a snake and arrive on the other side, far away back at the end of the street.

There were very many people there and you had to run, because you almost lost him in the crowd.

When you finally arrived near him, you started smiling and laughing, remembering all the nice moments you had spent together, at so many parties, making so much fun, because he was such a nice fellow, etc.

You must relate this part like a novel. Describe all the nice moments you spent together to your friends. Make them expect a “super meeting” between you and your old friend.

However, when you finally come near him, ready to give him a bear hug, with a smile bigger than your face, almost dancing, full of joy and excitement, he tells you with the coldest and most indifferent tone: “Hi!” and continues running to his destination, as if you were his neighbor and the fact that he saw you was simply routine.

Then you can complete: “I was even thinking about inviting him for dinner, and prepare or ordering his favorite food for him, with lots of beers, and call all our old friends, inviting them to come over too…”

And continue, exaggerating:

Put a red carpet in front of your house; buy the most expensive champagne, etc.

Your friends will complete the scenario too, adding supposed things that you could do only in order to please the ungrateful Joe.

At this point, everybody will start laughing.

This way, instead of feeling sad because your friend despised you, you’ll transform this sad event in a joke.

It may even become a symbol for your group of friends. For example, each time someone has a deception with someone because they are coldly received, they can say: “He or she treated me like Joe”. Or simply: “He was a Joe”.

Be intelligent! Make fun of your deceptions and fiascos and never again let them ruin your day!

If you use irony and humor against sadness, depression and anger, you’ll save your peace of mind and live happily for sure.

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A single dream is not enough. We need a series of dreams in order to understand what is happening to the dreamer and to understand the guidance of the wise unconscious mind that produces our dreams.

So, write down your dreams every day if you want to see results for your efforts.  Your dreams and their special messages should be really important to you!

If you put off this opportunity, time will pass and you won’t be able to send me anything…

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You can only eliminate anger with humor if you are not a victim of terror, and your problem is not very serious. Your purpose should always be to avoid a fight or suffering only because an inferior person did something wrong that caused many problems or only because someone offended you.

This method of therapy against anger works for most common cases of your daily life and it helps a lot! Instead of becoming nervous with the other person’s behaviour or their actions, you make fun of the situation or what they are saying.

For example, your wife/husband, son, or friend gives you an order demanding many unreasonable things that will require many efforts and time. Instead of becoming nervous with their request, ask them if they want “something else!” This is a known ironic answer but you can improve it by asking if the person wants their absurd demands served in a dish.

Did someone steal your reserved parking spot? Has someone left trash outside the can and causing a stink? Did someone break your favorite cup? Never mind! Let it be. Learn to relax and accept what is happening without losing your temper.

Humor! Make fun of the negative situation. Try to justify what happened as if it was preventing you from making a mistake. Now you cannot park your car in the same place and the thief who wanted to steal it cannot find it. Perhaps you are lucky because only your parking place was stolen, not your car.

Is your neighbour an indifferent person? Keep the neighbourhood clean on his behalf and do it with humor, without complaining, but considering yourself a big hero who solves the problems caused by others without fighting and creating worse problems.

Go buy a new cup for you, because a new cup has the symbolic meaning of a new time in your life. Something different in your routine may help you feel better!

Give good explanations for whatever happens to you, justify people’s actions or simply make fun of what is wrong because nothing should be able to eliminate your good disposition and courage.

On the other hand, your good disposition and intelligence will easily eliminate your anger and nervousness in all situations.

This way, you will always be fine and happy and give wise lessons to many people!

Prevent Depression and Craziness through the scientific method of Dream Interpretation discovered by Carl Jung and simplified by Christina Sponias, a writer who continued Jung’s research in the unknown region of the human psychic sphere.

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Have you submitted Your own dreams for Free professional dream interpretation and psychotherapy?

Don’t waste time! This is a limited offer, only for this summer.

A single dream is not enough. We need a series of dreams in order to understand what is happening to the dreamer and to understand the guidance of the wise unconscious mind that produces our dreams.

So, write down your dreams every day if you want to see results for your efforts.  Your dreams and their special messages should be really important to you!

You need to start right now so you will have enough time to submit many dreams. If you put off this opportunity, time will pass and you won’t be able to send me anything…

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Christina Sponias