Is this love? Be Careful With Your Vanity

Posted on January 1, 2009. Filed under: Advice | Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

You probably haven’t thought about this possibility, but the truth is that you may be wanted by many men or women, without being loved by them.

 

If you are attractive, intelligent, you have a great personality, money, beauty, etc., you may be desired by many people that belong to the opposite sex, but this doesn’t mean that they love you. This means that they want to posses you, without caring about the way you feel, your plans, ideals or preferences.

 

You will be able to verify if they really love you or not by examining their actions and their behavior.

 

Be very careful if you are very attractive, for one reason or another…

 

How can you verify if they are playing with you and they only want to fulfill their selfish desires, using you like a trophy that they exhibit to their environment, or using your intelligence and good disposition in order to make you work for them without being paid?

 

How can you be sure that you are not being used?

 

Pay attention to the way they behave with you.

 

If they make you suffer, without caring about the way you feel, but only about their desires, their plans and their ambitions, you’ll be easily able to understand that they don’t love you.

 

They simply want you, for other reasons. Otherwise, they would never make you suffer in order to oblige you to follow their plans. They are already using you if they are making you suffer for any reason.

 

Be careful if you are too wanted by too many, and never be vain, because your position is very delicate.

Vanity is pure stupidity, because if you are beautiful or very intelligent, this doesn’t mean that you are perfect as a human being or that your mental health is safe. On the contrary: you are the ideal victim for the wild anti-conscience, your primitive wild conscience that wants to destroy your human side through craziness and control your behavior, provoking schizophrenia, psychosis or neurosis.

 

Be very serious and carefully examine everyone that cares about you.

 

They only want your honey, like flies. They don’t care about your desires, your personality, your feelings, nothing…

 

They want to imprison you in a cage and be your owners, because you are very nice.

 

You have to learn many things about the human psyche and human behavior if you want to be safe.

 

The scientific method of dream interpretation will not only show you everything you must learn, but will also transform you into a wise and self-confident person.

 

The dynamic method you have the privilege to have access to today is the result of a very long research that took 19 years to be completed, so that you could learn everything immediately, without doubts or any other delay.

 

I delayed as much as necessary, until I had all the answers, and this is why only now I present you my perfect method of dream translation, which will show you immediately and clearly how to exactly translate the meaning of your dreams, and this way receive the guidance of the wise unconscious mind that produces them.

 

All your dreams have a protective character, exactly because you inherited the absurd anti-conscience, your wild conscience, in the biggest part of your brain.

 

You have to learn how to control your behavior and never be controlled by the anti-conscience, or by the people that pretend they love you, while they only want to posses you, because you are nice.

 

The person who will really love you will care first of all about making you happy!

 

Pay attention to all the details and examine everything very carefully before being a victim of your own vanity. Never believe that someone loves you, only because they felt attracted by your characteristics, your intelligence or your social position.

Christina Sponias continued Carl Jung’s research into the human psyche, discovering the cure for all mental illnesses, and simplifying the scientific method of dream interpretation that teaches you how to exactly translate the meaning of your dreams, so that you can find health, wisdom and happiness.

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Love and Expectations

Posted on September 1, 2008. Filed under: Advice | Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

 

When someone doesn’t say what he or she thinks and wants, the relationship is based on expectations. It usually happens when there is only a light-hearted relationship between two people and they do not have many conversations.

 

With the expectations, several fantasies lead to both the parties imagine several things about each other.

 

This imagination is very dangerous, because each one can completely distance him or herself from reality. However, the worse case is that when it happens, both the parties start making plans based on their expectations, without trying to understand reality as it really is…

 

Things only get worse with further suppositions and conclusions based on them.

 

What happens then? Suddenly, one of the two people involved decides to put an end to their expectation and do something to approach the desired person. However, he or she is not based in reality but in his or her own fantasies about the other person.

 

He or she makes several plans and continues supposing many things, so much so that he or she even thinks that these theories are facts. He or she forgets that these ideas are not real but are based on imagination.

 

When he or she comes to the point to finally do what he or she was planning to, the person discovers that the other person is totally different from what he or she had imagined them to be, and that their reactions are totally different from the ones expected.

 

What happens then? A big disappointment…

 

Things can be even worse though, when one of them decides to do something drastic to capture the desired person and pawns all one’s energy into this plan, thinking that it is “perfect,” even though it is based on the person’s imagination…

 

Many disasters start this way and end up in tragedies.

 

However, how can someone be aware of reality as it is and learn about the person one loves before having the chance to live with them for some time?

 

There is a safe way one can have all the information one needs without having personal contact with the other person or without hiring a detective to follow them all the time: dream interpretation.

 

The unconscious that produces the dreams gives us specific information about the person we love and the information we receive is very clear.

 

Dreams about the person we love are the most important because love is very dangerous, since it is a very crazy feeling. When the person is possessed by desire and passion, they are hypnotized by love.

 

This is a condition that needs caution and many studies about reality.

 

The information one can have through dream interpretation is exactly what one needs in order to solve one’s problems completely, by having a vision about the other person’s real character and many other points of reality that have been ignored. 

 

      

 

 

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Relationships and Social Success – How to Be Admired by Someone

Posted on August 23, 2008. Filed under: Techniques | Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , |

 

 

If you feel you are not well accepted by someone you wish would accept and admire you, you have to conquer this person.

 

This person could be the one you love, or your boss, your teacher, your friend, whoever. The lessons I’m going to give you here are general and can be applied in all cases.

 

First of all you have to try to understand the other person’s psychology.

 

Analyze their personality, try to understand their reactions: why they act the way they do? Who are they really?

 

Try to find out everything you can about this important person and pay attention to their behavior. Pay attention to what they like and to what they dislike.

 

Do that without being noticed, of course! Your research is secret.

 

After observing and examining everything you can about the other person, try to do things that they like, in the way they like them. You have to please them, having the behavior they admire. This is why you have to learn first of all what their preferences are, analyzing their personality and everything else.

 

You have to study the other person’s behavior if you want to be successful in your relationship.

 

Now, if you want to be admired, you must do more than simply “please” the other person doing something they like.

 

Who do we admire?

 

We admire people that do something heroic, people that are successful, people that have a good character, people that help others, people that know many things, people that have a great sense of humor, people that always have the courage to say the truth, people that have an ideal in life, people that are not empty but have many qualities and do many things, people that work, people that are original… just to give you an idea.

 

So, if you want to be admired, you have to be somehow like the examples I mentioned: you have to be very good in certain point.

 

Which point? The one that the special person admires.

 

Depending on what they like, you have to adjust the ideal attitude for your case. Be a hero, according to their idea of a hero.

 

If for them a hero would be someone that works a lot, be an excellent worker. If for them a hero would be a person that makes a lot of money, try to make money somehow, in order to impress them; if they like generosity, be the hero that saves the poor, and so on.

 

There are many other things you can do!

 

Try to discover them by yourself, now that you understood how to begin.

 

 

Prevent Depression and Craziness through the scientific method of Dream Interpretation discovered by Carl Jung and simplified by Christina Sponias, a writer who continued Jung’s research in the unknown region of the human psychic sphere.

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Submit your dreams while you can because I really am not going to do it for too much longer!

 

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