Humor Against Deceptions and Fiascos

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If you start making fun of the sad situations in your life, you will start laughing about what is wrong, instead of feeling sad and annoyed.

 

Of course, you must feel sad with what is bad and you must accept suffering when necessary, however, since sadness and depression are unbearable, you have to fight against these feelings. They have a negative impact and they ruin your life.

 

What can you do to feel better?

 

How can you acquire the indispensable mood in order to start making fun of everything around you?

 

Use irony!

 

For example, you see an old friend on the other side of the street. You feel happy and you even cross the street smiling because you are going to meet old Joe, with whom you went to many parties in the past, but when you get near him, he simple says: “Hi”, and waves his hand saying: “See you!” walking quickly to his destination, without caring about your existence.

 

You feel stupid. You almost lost your appointment because you crossed the street to meet the “old fellow”, while he despised you completely, without showing you any sympathy.

 

Now, what are you going to do? Feel sad and disappointed, believing that your warm reaction was ridiculous?

 

No! You are going to make a joke out of it!

 

Fiascos are the best material for natural jokes!

 

You are going to tell your friends that you had “a very important meeting” the other day, and you are going to exaggerate while describing your feelings and your actions.

 

You are going to say that you were too far, but yes, you could recognize him. Yes, it was Joe! What an emotion! Joe, the old Joe! You couldn’t believe in your eyes…

 

The place was crowded, but with tremendous difficulty, you managed to pass through the crowd like a snake and arrive on the other side, far away back at the end of the street.

 

There were very many people there and you had to run, because you almost lost him in the crowd.

 

When you finally arrived near him, you started smiling and laughing, remembering all the nice moments you had spent together, at so many parties, making so much fun, because he was such a nice fellow, etc.

 

You must relate this part like a novel. Describe all the nice moments you spent together to your friends. Make them expect a “super meeting” between you and your old friend.

 

However, when you finally come near him, ready to give him a bear hug, with a smile bigger than your face, almost dancing, full of joy and excitement, he tells you with the coldest and most indifferent tone: “Hi!” and continues running to his destination, as if you were his neighbor and the fact that he saw you was simply routine.

 

Then you can complete: “I was even thinking about inviting him for dinner, and prepare or ordering his favorite food for him, with lots of beers, and call all our old friends, inviting them to come over too…”

 

And continue, exaggerating:

 

Put a red carpet in front of your house; buy the most expensive champagne, etc.

 

Your friends will complete the scenario too, adding supposed things that you could do only in order to please the ungrateful Joe.

 

At this point, everybody will start laughing.

 

This way, instead of feeling sad because your friend despised you, you’ll transform this sad event in a joke.

 

It may even become a symbol for your group of friends. For example, each time someone has a deception with someone because they are coldly received, they can say: “He or she treated me like Joe”. Or simply: “He was a Joe”.

 

Be intelligent! Make fun of your deceptions and fiascos and never again let them ruin your day!

 

If you use irony and humor against sadness, depression and anger, you’ll save your peace of mind and live happily for sure.

 

 

 

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